I am officially on my way to getting another certification under my Exercise Science belt!! The American Council on Exercise (ACE) Weight Management Specialist! It is a six course, six test certification that covers a wide range of topics.
I would be honored if all of you; my wonderful family, friends, clients, and followers took this journey with me. I do believe you, along with myself, will learn a lot from the studies I am willfully partaking in.
My first book is called: Weight Management For Teens
I have only read the first chapter and already my mind is spinning with information...
Chapter 1: The Pressures to Diet
There are certain "circles of influence" for teens today when it comes to body image and how they feel about themselves including media, family, friends, teachers, and coaches.
As all of us know, we are living in a society that puts serious emphasis on being skinny. Skinny is also significantly related to being deemed as beautiful and successful. Discrimination against anyone who doesn't seem to fit this "skinny" image are shown prejudice across all ages, race, and sex. This begins to create something called "fat phobia" as early as the age of 6:-(
Did you know that professional models used to weight 8 percent less than the average women? It makes me said to know that the ideal woman model now weighs at least 23 percent less than the average woman... no wonder we all feel "fat" and "ugly." Many people associate weight loss with feeling of being wanted, loved, accepted, and happy. Why can't we just be happy with what God gave us and learn how to take care of our bodies in a healthy AND happy way? Only 8 percent of society naturally falls into this "ideal woman" image we see plastered on TV, magazine, and social media.
Family, friends, teacher, and coaches can almost cause more harm to a child or teenager if they are constantly worrying about their weight and the weight of the child. Here is a paragraph in the book that makes my heart hurt. "Parental dissatisfaction with their offspring's sizes and /or shapes often results in pressuring children to lose weight by making their love conditional to the achievement of this goal. For many young women, being thin is equated with being loved."
Unfortunately if we are always hearing that we need to be thin to be beautiful, we will begin to believe it. When will we all realize that we are all born different shapes and sizes?
Did you know that adolescent girls who pursue any sort of weight-management or diet regimen are more likely to become overweight. Most are also more likely to binge eat and develop an eating disorder. Almost every single young women who was asked if they felt like they needed to lose weight said yes, even if they were significantly underweight.
I know this is talking about teen, but every person reading this should be able to relate, and I am merely skimming the surface. Unless you look like Cindy freakin Crawford, I'm sure we have all had those "I'm Fat" moments. So how do we heal our minds and bodies from feeling these undesired pressures to be skinny and diet?
Here are some simple steps:
-Let's redefine beauty
-Say loving words about our self and our body, aka positive self talk
-Teach each other positive self talk- communicate positive self talk (any of my clients will know exactly what this is because I am always saying "OK now say two nice things about yourself:-) )
-STOP talking about diets and learn to live a healthy lifestyle- food for fuel
- Learn to use food as fuel and to nourish the body - create a healthy relationship with food
ACCEPT YOUR BODY JUST AS THEY ARE AND CARE FOR THEM APPROPRIATELY!
Say to yourself, "I value my body and my health."
How or who has effected how you view or perceive your body? Have you come to terms with who you are and love who you are?
Even with all the weight loss magic that is out there, you will never get the body and health you are striving for if you do not love yourself first. Learn how to live a healthy lifestyle. Make sure your "circle of influences" is positively effecting your life, not bringing you down. Be the positive influence for all the young women in your life especially, you both will be better for it in the long run!
Live a Fit, Fabulous, and Happy Life:-)